012: Nine guidelines for loving spankings that benefit your child

012: Nine guidelines for loving spankings that benefit your child

Many adults were never spanked and others were abused. So we understand how it can be very difficult to know what a “good” or “right” spanking should be like. Scripture assumes readers to understand what a “good” and “bad” spanking looks like… but that’s...
011: Spanking is a good thing (not an abusive thing)

011: Spanking is a good thing (not an abusive thing)

“Spanking” is a word in parenting circles that immediately creates tension. We all understand why… there are folks on either side of the issue who have a strong opinion about the subject… Some feel any time a parent strikes a child it’s wrong and abusive. Many of the...
010: Discipline: One size does NOT fit all

010: Discipline: One size does NOT fit all

I’m sure you’ve heard the term and you’ve probably experienced the result of the phrase, One size fits all. The only thing I have ever experienced where one size really does fit all is with those professional flexible band, major league baseball type...
009: Discipline is a good thing (not a scary thing)

009: Discipline is a good thing (not a scary thing)

What do you think of when you hear the word “discipline?” Exercise? Dieting? Punishment or correction? It’s a word that certainly has a place in all those contexts… and it’s also a word that comes into play for Christian parents almost daily as they seek to train...
008: Don’t excuse your kids’ bad behavior

008: Don’t excuse your kids’ bad behavior

Recently, my 94-year old mother told me a story about how an old friend of hers dealt with her kids’ misbehavior. According to my Mom (who can tell a story, but seldom makes things up). this friend often got calls from the school that her kids were in the Principal’s...
007: Teach, train, and discipline your kids like God does

007: Teach, train, and discipline your kids like God does

Every parent comes into their role as Mom or Dad with NO experience. There’s also no step by step user’s manual to help us get our feet under us. But there are role models we can look to who can give us an idea of what we’re supposed to do as parents. Our best role...
006: Don’t fear your authority (or your kids)

006: Don’t fear your authority (or your kids)

If I were to ask you, “Are you’re willing to do whatever it takes to equip your kids to be adults who honor and love the Lord?” you’d likely say, “Yes.” But what if I asked you this question? “Are you willing to do whatever it takes to overcome YOUR OWN...
005: How you can guide the heart of your child to the heart of God

005: How you can guide the heart of your child to the heart of God

Imagine for a moment that you’re driving down the road and the warning light on the dashboard of your car comes on. What is that telling you? It’s telling you that something on the inside of your engine or in the mechanics of your car is not working...