013: Good thinking comes from good communication

013: Good thinking comes from good communication

Imagine that you come into a newly built home and it’s your job to decorate it for the sale of the home. You have these beautifully painted blank walls. You have a wonderful open floor plan. You have all this great canvas to work on and you get to adorn this...
012: Nine guidelines for loving spankings that benefit your child

012: Nine guidelines for loving spankings that benefit your child

Many adults were never spanked and others were abused. So we understand how it can be very difficult to know what a “good” or “right” spanking should be like. Scripture assumes readers to understand what a “good” and “bad” spanking looks like… but that’s...
011: Spanking is a good thing (not an abusive thing)

011: Spanking is a good thing (not an abusive thing)

“Spanking” is a word in parenting circles that immediately creates tension. We all understand why… there are folks on either side of the issue who have a strong opinion about the subject… Some feel any time a parent strikes a child it’s wrong and abusive. Many of the...
010: Discipline: One size does NOT fit all

010: Discipline: One size does NOT fit all

I’m sure you’ve heard the term and you’ve probably experienced the result of the phrase, One size fits all. The only thing I have ever experienced where one size really does fit all is with those professional flexible band, major league baseball type...
009: Discipline is a good thing (not a scary thing)

009: Discipline is a good thing (not a scary thing)

What do you think of when you hear the word “discipline?” Exercise? Dieting? Punishment or correction? It’s a word that certainly has a place in all those contexts… and it’s also a word that comes into play for Christian parents almost daily as they seek to train...
008: Don’t excuse your kids’ bad behavior

008: Don’t excuse your kids’ bad behavior

Recently, my 94-year old mother told me a story about how an old friend of hers dealt with her kids’ misbehavior. According to my Mom (who can tell a story, but seldom makes things up). this friend often got calls from the school that her kids were in the Principal’s...